How to Make Friends in High School

Posted February 27, 2023

Moving to a high school or a new school district in Michigan can be difficult for some students. Being in a new school can feel even more intimidating for students when trying to make new friends. Teens who are shy or anxious may feel that they have a hard time finding their place among their peers. However, learning how to make friends in high school does not have to be overwhelming. There are many different steps for you to take to meet new people and make lasting friendships.

Be Yourself

The best way to make genuine friendships is to be yourself. When you engage in activities that you enjoy, you will be happier, and that will project outwards. It will also help you connect with others who notice and have similar interests. It is perfectly acceptable to show interest in the hobbies of others, but you do not have to pretend you like to play sports if you would rather be photographing a new friend's matches.

Not everyone has the same interests, and that is fine. Variety will make your friendships more interesting and give you something different to talk about occasionally before finding other common ground. Appreciating who you are and what you love to do will make you a better person and a better friend to others.

Go to Social Events

Social events are an excellent way to meet new people you might not otherwise encounter outside of scheduled classes. Dances, pep rallies, concerts, plays, sports games, and other events are great ways to connect with your peers in a different environment. Cheering your classmates on and supporting their hobbies and interests throughout the community is a great way to find things in common with your peers and potentially build friendships you might have otherwise missed.

Build Relationships

Building relationships in high school is more than just making friends with classmates. Cultivating mentorships with educators and advisors can benefit you in more ways than just academically. Teachers and counselors get to know their students, and, in turn, they can connect you to those with similar academic, social, and personal interests.

Challenge Yourself

Extracurricular activities are an excellent way to meet new people and explore your interests, and of course, they look great on college applications. However, you do not have to stick to just the things you already know and love. For example, suppose you step outside of your comfort zone and join the debate team or take a public speaking elective - despite your fear of public speaking - you will grow academically and personally and very likely meet people who can support you in the process.

Another way to challenge yourself is to sit beside someone sitting alone. Smile at the new student in class or say hello to someone in class you have never spoken to before. Compliment a stranger or strike up a conversation with someone based on something interesting you notice about them and see where it goes. New friendships can grow from gestures of kindness.

Creating a Support System at NexTech High School

Making friends in high school may take a little extra effort, but it can have excellent results. By finding common interests, being approachable, and taking the time to build relationships, you can create a network of friends and allies who will provide emotional and practical support throughout your high school journey.

NexTech High School offers a variety of programs and resources to help students build connections, such as clubs and activities, counseling services, and a diverse student body. We encourage all students to take advantage of these opportunities and actively seek out ways to build a strong support system at NexTech High School.

At NexTech High School, you will find that growth as a student and person is easier when a supportive team of individuals surrounds you. With a solid network of friends and allies, students will be well-equipped to navigate the challenges and opportunities of high school and beyond.

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